“Read this book. It may change your life.”— Peter Singer, author of Animal Liberation
What if the point of self-improvement were not just to feel better or get ahead, but to become more capable of helping in a hurting world?
In Compassionate Purpose, Magnus Vinding bridges self-help and ethics with a framework for personal development in service of a larger goal: reducing extreme suffering. From self-compassion and motivation to habits, relationships, and concrete action, this book is a toolkit for building a life that takes suffering seriously without losing hope or direction.
Start where you are. Build a life that helps.
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For more on why I wrote Compassionate Purpose, see my EA Forum post.
This book completes a three-book series on reducing suffering: Suffering-Focused Ethics explores the moral foundations, Reasoned Politics the political and institutional side, and Compassionate Purpose the personal side.
Praise for Compassionate Purpose
“How are we to live, in a world in which there is so much unnecessary suffering? Magnus Vinding looks unflinchingly at that question, and gives an answer that is realistic, and yet inspiring. Read this book. It may change your life.”
— Peter Singer, author of Animal Liberation
“Compassionate Purpose is a serious and thoughtful exploration of how ethical concern for suffering can be integrated with a personally meaningful sense of purpose. Readers looking for a clear-eyed, unsentimental examination of compassion as a lived commitment — rather than a passing feeling — will find much here to reflect on.”
— Steven C. Hayes, co-developer of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, author of A Liberated Mind
“This is an uplifting book by a uniquely pragmatic scholar. Based on his thoughtful analysis of empirical research and more than a dollop of common sense, Magnus Vinding explains why and how we can apply our inner skills and resources to alleviate suffering. Readers are invited into a wide-ranging, rational reflection that leaves them feeling smarter, more ethically oriented, and empowered to take action.”
— Christopher Germer, lecturer at Harvard Medical School, co-developer of the Mindful Self-Compassion program
“Magnus Vinding does something difficult in Compassionate Purpose: he asks us to face the reality of suffering without flinching, and then shows us — with care and evidence — how to respond without burning out. His attention to self-compassion as a foundation for ethical action, not an afterthought, is exactly right. Essential reading for anyone trying to live their values in a world that makes that hard.”
— Tara Cousineau, Teaching Associate in Psychiatry, Harvard Medical School, author of The Kindness Cure and The Perfectionist’s Dilemma
“Very few people dare to contemplate the magnitude and severity of suffering in the world. Fewer still decide to do something about it. And even fewer have the tools to rise to the challenge in a sustainable way. If you are brave enough not to look away and serious about alleviating suffering, you’ll need this book. I wish I had read it 10 years ago.”
— Alfredo Parra-Hinojosa, co-founder and director of ClusterFree, an organization working to prevent cluster headaches
“Magnus Vinding has written a thoughtful, well-researched analysis of an enormously important but sorely neglected issue. You might not agree with all of his arguments, but you will come away better informed and, I hope, moved to action.”
— Jonathan Balcombe, author of What a Fish Knows and Super Fly
“The pervasiveness and intensity of suffering can feel overwhelming. Compassionate Purpose shows a sustainable path forward, highlighting the moral urgency of reducing suffering, while offering wise guidance on how to undertake this endeavor in a healthy and balanced way.”
— Angela Crawford, psychologist and author of The Vegan Transformation
“Across the pages, between the lines… something shines through: the compassionate purpose of the writer himself. The title of the book thus mirrors its content and spirit: What are little and all-too-human beings to do in a world so utterly broken, so painful, so tragic, so intensely serious beyond our moral imaginations? We are to find compassionate purpose: the only true place of connection between individual salvation or peace of mind or joy, and the tears of the universe.”
— Hanzi Freinacht, metamodern political philosopher, author of The Listening Society and Nordic Ideology
“Once we glimpse all the current and potential future suffering in our universe, we have options. We can collapse into fatalistic doomerism. We can naively pin all of our hopes on techno-utopianism. Or we can turn away from reality and put our blindfold back on, finding refuge in ignorance and avoidance. Or, instead, we can read Compassionate Purpose and discover a better way. A grounded, honest, and inspiring way. One that’s better for us, our communities, and all sentient beings. One where we enthusiastically seize our opportunity to make things radically better than they would otherwise be. Let’s do it together!”
— Jamie Woodhouse, host of the Sentientism podcast and founder of Sentientism.info
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